Erotic Massage to Spice Up Your Romantic Night

Heat up and add some spices to your same boring love life using erotic massage to your sweetheart and make her experience extended or multiple orgasms she will never forget. She will love your hands more than your D.I.C.K !

Opps! Don’t worry about it. I promise it won’t happen. Having skillful erotic massage will enhance both of your love life and she will be more than eager to your love-making and like it as much as you do. You don’t have to beg and drag her again every time you need it.

This is what these tips are about. Giving erotic massage and make her beg you for more.

Arrangement and environment
The most suitable place shall be your own bedroom, but to create sensual and appealing place you may choose unexpected place like your kitchen or your private patio (?) or one night out in hotel. The idea here is to prevent boredom and make a romantic place to give your erotic massage show.

Take time to create a supporting environment for that erotic massage night and make sure no disturbance to zero tolerance. No tube, no radio, and no telephone call. Shut them off and put “No Disturb Sign” on.

Noisy sounds are prohibited. The only sound allowed is your selected song playing on repeat mode. Have kids around? Send them to somewhere else.


1. Lighting and temperature
Turn off the light. Use candles instead or use indirect lamps. Burn incense and arrange the heater to the temperature where both of you will be comfortable lying down naked.

Prepare pillow and blanked or clean sheet to cover your massage table so you can bring it up to cover her once your erotic massage finished to give her extra warm.

2. Lubrication
There are many type of lubricants available in market but you must only use water-based lubricant and contains no Nonoxynol-9 on her to avoid encouraging vaginal infections and irritation. Lubricant is necessary in erotic message to make your massage more pleasurable and prevent sore spots from developing.

Keep the lubricant bottle ready around within your reach. Warm the lube in a bowl of hot water and test it on your hand before applying to her skin.

3. Communication
During your erotic massage it is important you encourage her to request and feel comfortable to make comment on everything that is getting in the way of her comfort and pleasure. Listen if she utters “harder or lighter “or command you “stop”, etc and do comply. Reading her signs during your erotic massage is the key to make her experience higher pleasure.


1. Relaxing her body

Relaxing her body by start connecting with her, whisper kind and romantic words, tell silly jokes and make her smile, soft staring into her eyes, and synchronized breathing. When she is ready start caressing her face and hands.

Let her lie face down naked on massage table. Focusing your mind and softly resting your hands on her back. Then perform your erotic massage from her upper back up and down to her legs and feet. Remember, always keep your hands in contact with her, taking your time, being sensitive, and proceeding from long gliding strokes to deeper ones.

When giving a massage be sure to use good body mechanics: use your body weight rather than arm strength for deep strokes, during gliding strokes keep your knees slightly bent and fluid, and don't lean over the table.

After relaxing her back, legs, and feet, have her turn over. Massage her breast, arms, and hands. Then glide down to her legs. Brush the genitals lightly when going down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over her genitals again, teasing them.

This teasing game can be drawn out by brushing her inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc. At this point erotic energy is often building. The rest of the massage will focus on the genitals, with periodic sweeps up and down the body to spread, balance, and integrate the sensations.

Smoothly and gradually ramp up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual massage. Make it a natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activities.

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