On the first post, we have talked about how to prepare your sweetheart before performing your erotic massage to her and now we will have important facts to understand about her sexual respond to your art of erotic message.Shifting to her genital message
Female sexual response is different from male response, so it is important for us to understand few facts about it.
a). Her arousal tends to be tied closely to emotional states and feeling about you.
b). Women often vary considerably in what type of sexual stimulation they like, and how they like it done and reach orgasms in two different ways ( vaginal / G-spot stimulation and Clitoral stimulation )
c). Her arousal usually takes longer to build, but can often last longer and be more intense than that which men commonly experience. Thus they can often have multiple orgasms.
Due to the above facts the basic approach to erotic massage differs between women and men. Since women can sometimes enjoy stimulation all the way through one orgasm and into the next, there is little or no need for them to hold back in any way. Having orgasms in a series can cause arousal levels to float for a long time at a very high level.
Here is several type of genital massages you can perform to make her achieve intense orgasms but remember when performing genital massage on her, you must have one free hand which may be used to glide over the rest of her body, tease her nipples, massage her perineum, caress her face, form connections with other parts of her body by stimulating some other part of her body at the same time as you are pleasuring her genitals, etc.
Massage her Clitoris
Learn what part of your erotic massage feels best to her clitoris. Try to circle around it softly and rhythmically with your lubricated finger. Read her signs, listen to her feedback and once you have found her most pleasurable part – continuously apply it to make her achieve clitoris orgasms.
You can make her clitoris orgasms feel better if you fill her vagina is with more fingers during your erotic message or get help of dildo to accomplish this sensation.
Massage her G-spot
The G-Spot is an area on the forward wall of the vagina, just behind the pubic bone about two inches in. You won’t miss it. It feels more ridged than surrounding tissue. Your erotic massage aim is to find this vagina pleasure spot and give it the ultimate sensation and you can reach her secret sweet spot through three easy ways:
1. “Come here” approach
The easy way to stimulate her G-Spot is with your lubricated first and second fingers together. Make rhythmic gestures inside the vagina that look like the signal to "come here".
2. “Circle it” approach
Alternatively, you can rub the G-Spot in a circular fashion. Generally, it's the pads of your fingers which are pressing into her G-Spot.
3. “More pressure, please” approach
Another approach is to rotate your fingers inside her vaginal barrel with even pressure against all areas of it. Be aware that the shape of the vagina changes as her arousal level increases. You'll probably notice the inner portion ballooning outwards during extreme arousal, which means that your fingers will need to rotate a little farther from center in order to maintain the same pressure on the vaginal walls.
Toy Massage
Toy sex massage such as vibrators generally works best on or near the clitoris. Adjust the speed to her liking. If the vibration is too intense, switch to a lower speed or put a cloth between the vibrator and her clitoris. It's also fun for a vibrator to be used clitorally at the same time vaginal penetration is being performed.
Labial Massage
Place a well lubricated hand over her labia, fingers pointing towards her anus. Pull up toward the navel and alternate hands. Explore the inner and outer lips with your fingers. Pull gently on one and then the other. Rub the outer lips gently between your forefinger and thumb, then the inner lips.
Hitch-Hiker Style
Insert your first two fingers into her, then arch your thumb back 'hitch-hiker' style and thrust in until your thumb rests against her clitoris. You can use a variety of thrusting and twisting motions in this position. You can also vibrate your entire hand.
Push the Button
Gently insert one finger deeply into her vagina and, when she's ready, insert a second. Then take your thumb and place it against her anus. Don't insert it. Instead, press there while you move your fingers.
Tapping Ritual
Place the palm of your hand on her mound where her pubic hair is and rest your fingers lightly on her vaginal lips. Rest your thumb on her opposite thigh. Lightly but firmly press your palm onto her mound and begin to move your hand in a tiny circular motion.
You palm should not slide too much over her skin during this process. Instead, her skin should move underneath it. Repeat this process until you have done ten circles. You then raise your fingers and lightly tap her vaginal lips about once a second until you have given her ten taps. Please note that these are light taps, not spanks. They shouldn't hurt. After giving the taps, rest your hand for five to ten seconds. Then repeat the circles, then repeat the taps, then rest again, then repeat the circles.
Here the six magic of genital massages and you may finish the ritual by having a real intercourse with your most favorite style.
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